Kinda scared..help?

Question

Ok so i havnt had my period in about four months..which is really weird for me,i mean its not liek i just started. Im 15 and i started in about 6th grade..around age..11? maybe im not sure but its prety regular.. Im really not sure what to do, im NOT pregnant becuase i am virgin so that is ruled out. Im also an average weight so its not like im underweight. (im 5'5 about 110lbs).

Im not sure what to do! i dont want to tell my mom yet and take me to a doctor because she will freak out and assume im pregnant but im really not! I swear i am a virgin im just not sure wahts going on cause this isnt normal

advice..please lol.

Answer 1

Tell your mother!!!! You need to go to a doctor and find out what is wrong. Your mother may freak out and think you are pregnant but, the doctor can confirm that you are a virgin.

Answer 2

I had the same problem when I was your age. I was diagnosed with having a lazy ovary. I went on hormone treatments (I wouldn't necessarily advise this) to bring on menstruation. From then on though, I had very irregular periods, and worried that I may never have children. I am now a mom of three, so this was unnecessary fretting.



I recommend telling your mom, so you can decide with medical advice what treatment should be sought. Perhaps start with "Mom, I know all about the birds and the bees, and I haven't been active at all, but I need to tell you it's been 9 months - see no baby - and I'm not mensturationg."



It happens. You're not the only one, but you should get reassurance from your doctor.

Answer 3

Unfortunately you NEED to tell your mother. She is a woman she will understand, just be 100% honest with her. This is not a good thing and I myself waited three months before seeing a doctor. I just went yesterday and had some tests done. You yourself will probably have the same done, you dont want to end up sick. You could have amenorhhea which is when your period stops for a MINIMUM of three months, and your past that. This could be caused by a minor thing or a major thing. Ranging from cysts to bumps, lumps, etc. You need to go asap and get checked out, you could have something seriously wrong with you hun and you wouldnt want to just drop one day for neglecting it because your scared your parents will think your sexually active when you know very well your not. Please go for piece of mind atleast and update us all. Good luck!

Answer 4

You just need to ask your mom. She may think you have had sex, and she may not. Give her a chance.



Either way you need to talk to a doctor. It could be nothing but it could be something. It is better to be safe than sorry.



As a mom myself, and yes that would cross my mind because all parents know their kids do not tell them everything, I would want my daughters to tell me when they are worried about something rather than hold it in. What if it is something and you did nothing about it? You mom would be even more upset that you are suffering then.



Chin Up and get her to help.



Once you get to the doctor she will know you are not pregnant.

Answer 5

Oh girl don't worry about that i didn't have mines for 5 monthes and im 15 about to be 16 and I'm also a virgin. WHen i went to the doctor she said it was common for teenages, and it isn't anything to worry about long as you aren't having sex. But you should still go get checked out. It won't hurt a thing!

Answer 6

Well, you should tell your mom. Four months is quite a while, and you prolly do have to go to the doctor. they might try to put you on the pill or somthing to try to regulate it again (just a guess thou). Every bodies body is different thou, I once had my period for a month... I had to go to the Doctor, and they put me on the pill to try to regulate it... this could be a similar situation (or not). But, if your just scared of your mom thinking your pregnant, you should just tell her cause your not.. and she would find out that your not when you go to the doctor anyways.

Hope this helps :)_

Answer 7

Yes baby its perfectly normal and you really haven't been having your period that long, comparatively. Lots of things can screw up your cycle: stress, physical exertion like sports - lots of athletes don't get their periods. If you're worried, take a hike down to the local Health Department, they aren't allowed to tell your parents in most states. Your health is not something to play with, though, and if you suspect something isn't right, GO TO THE DOCTOR.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

i believe it does get delayed sometimes do to stress and stuff like that but i dont think for 4 months u should probably see a doctor. also i dont think ur moms going to think ur pregnant ur just being paranoid. dont stress too much over it. wouldn't u rather go to the doctor soon and get it off ur mind??

Answer 10

Well...you don't have to have your mom take you to the dr...if you have a friend that drives and can take you there...But I do think you need to go to the Dr. and see what is up with your body...not to normal for something like this to happen...maybe if you are very athletic it could happen but get it checked out to ease you mind...Good Luck

Answer 11

go online to like, a site helping children with periods and ask the professionals. I honestly think you should consoult your doctor...maby go alone? i think you are slightly underweight so that might be the case.

Good luck =]

Answer 12

umm dry humping can also get you pregnant but its a very very low chance... and if your sure your not pregnant than you should tell your mother. Yahoo answers can't solve all your problems. and if you really don't want to...... call a doctor

Answer 13

wow umm - you really do need to tell your mum - your a virgin so how can she be mad at you when your innocent!

GO NOW and tell her the truth

dw it's better to be safe than sorry xxx

Answer 14

Sure you didn't lose a lot of weight lately?

Answer 15

awww you should tell your mom so she can get you help. but let her know not to freak out because you are not sexually active