what´s the best (non pill!) contraceptive for me?

Question

me and my boyfriend hav been using condoms for the last 2 years but now would prefer something else...i don´t want to go on the pill because of the hormonal effects (i hav had bad experiences). i know you can go trying different types of pills but i don´t want to, i prefer something else. i don´t want the injection for simliar reason (hormones - that once it´s done you can´t reverse the effects...in that at least if u take the pill and it doesn´t agree with u , you can stop taking it....)

i´m thinking of either the patch or the copper iud coil. i haven´t had children but do want them in the future - i´ve heard iud can damage fertility rates? does the iud hav any hormonal side effects (weight gain, emotionalness etc? or is it purely a physical barrier?) i know the patch is hormonal but i heard it´s v light dose...and so are side effects of this minimum?

what would be best? i´m 23, non smoker, never been pregnant, 155cm, 49kg, low blood pressure

Answer 1

With the fears you have, the condom is still your best bet, regarding safety, comfort, and reliability. Actually double up on them for the reliability part. There are multiple types of IUDs that only you and your Dr. can make a decision about. There is even a female type condom on the market now, but what the heck ??? The male one is probably cheaper and easier to use. Also a foam contraceptive, I wouldn't recommend, but I'd never take my son back, if ya catch my drift.

Answer 2

IUD is a nice way to go....however it is typically inserted easier when you have had a child.



The levonorgestrel (LNg) IUD, also known as Mirena, releases levonorgestrel, which is a form of progestin. The LNg IUD appears to be slightly more effective at preventing pregnancy than the copper IUD. Also, unlike other IUDs, it may reduce the risk of pelvic inflammatory disease (PID). The LNg IUD is effective for at least 5 years.



I use this one and the cramping after insertion sucked. I also still am getting my period almost monthly even though most stop after just a few months. The nice thing....never have to worrry about getting pregnant...no weight gain...and can be removed in 5 years with no issues regarding lack of fertility later.



Keep in mind it's always less stressful to think about family planning if you are sexually active AFTER you are married. *winks*

Answer 3

The patch. I myself am on it and have not got any side affects. I was also on the pill and used condoms. and the patch seems to be the best out of them all. I also know a girl who was using the injection [you know the one you get every three months] and she changed to the patch. And prefers it. But I can't comment on that because I was never personally on it and as you know it affects people differently.

But I would talk to my doctor about it, they do know a lot more about all this and can be very helpful.



Best of luck with what ever you choose.

Answer 4

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Infertility is a condition defined as not being able to become pregnant after at least one year of unprotected, regular, well-timed intercourse. Women who suffer from multiple miscarriages may also be diagnosed as infertile. Infertility may be classified into two groups, primary and secondary infertility.

Answer 5

what about a femidom? or just continue with the condoms u have basically crossed everything else of your list.

Answer 6

A lovely thing called self-control. Birth control kills children.