Guys/Girls about boobs?

Question

I'm 17 now, and i think ive stopped growing, but i have a massive issue about my boobs. They are like not even an A cup, and i get really self concious. I have never really had boyfriend although had offers, i just feel i could never show anyone, so i push them away...Its really bugging me, as ive tried to be happy with myself, but it never works. What can i do about this problem as its really hindering my confidence and socialising with guys! I'm 5"4 and 108pounds, so i know im quite petite, i just feel so ugly with my boobs. Any advice about what i can do? aaarrrgh! xx

Answer 1

Don't worry about it! Do you see all of those models on the runway? They have miniscule breasts, if they have any at all! Paris Hilton is a perfect example. Guys would die to get with her, and she has tiny boobs. You obviously have a great body. Be thankful for that.

Ultimately though, looks will get a guys attention, but your personality will keep him. Looks fade over time. Just make sure that you have a great personality to match your great great body!

Answer 2

You know something? Not everybody is happy with their boobs!! Look at me, I'm a C cup and I hate mine!! I'm also petite, so they are far too big for me! I would love to have them smaller, but there is not much I can do! I'm 26, I've learnt to love them! when I was your age I really hated them, but the truth is that the problem is just in my mind, people don't even notice how big they are till the moment I complain about them! Don't worry, they can still get bigger, honest, if they stay the same, well, learn to love them. I'm sure you are a great girl and your boobs are not going to make you better or worse than any other girl with biggers boobs! As I always say, we are never happy with what we have, me included!!

Best of luck girl!

Answer 3

It's ok I'm 28 and have less than an A cup but still live happily with my twelve beautiful cats and they don't judge me for my little boobs.

Answer 4

Sweetheart there was a similar question to yours on this page already , you are obviously a girl with a slim build so your breasts will be petite, You are probably a very pretty girl and there are many elements that up the beauty in a woman or a girl, this ranges from a good personality, a good sense of humour, fun to be with, a caring attitude , a good listener, if you had largish breasts you would look odd being such a slim girl, so do not be concerned you do not have big breasts, be proud of your body and your inner beauty will shine through.

Answer 5

Don't feel bad! I know plenty of guys that like little boobs. The idea that every guy likes huge boobs is just a myth. Self confidence is a lot sexier than big boobs so just go out there with the knowledge that you look gorgeous :)

Anyways your boobs can continue to grow until you're into your 20's so they may get bigger yet

Answer 6

You are not complete puberty till 18 or so. You still a chance getting breast development. Best things for you to talk your doctor to find out why your breast are not development. You're possible underweight as your scale 108 pounds at 17 and should be average 122 pounds for your age. I know, you're petite. If I were you ask your doctor.

Answer 7

Fom a Guys point of view.



Some guys dotn care about the sie of you chest, as long as you nice looking, fun to be with and enjoy each others company. Any guy who only dates a girl with big boobs is sad and pathetic. Its whats inside that counts not just outward appearence. I think you should not owrry atol as if you have had offers then there are guys who do wanna be with you for who you are and like what you look like. My ex GF was small herslef and it didnt bother me cause there is more to life than a pair of boobs.



Also there is still time for yours to develope as they can grow right uptill your 21 roughly but you should be happy with what your given and not ashamed. never try to change who you are and never let any else try to change you.



Hope this helps

Answer 8

Don't worry smaller boobs look better in tops anyway plus they wont go droppy, so I know what id rather have. You might be a late developer and sprout them overnight like I did, I went from AA to DD, you don't stop growing until your 21 so you have plenty of time yet. In the meantime wear a padded bra and chill because decent men don't care about the size of your breasts, they will care about you.

Answer 9

I know you've probably been told this like a zillion times, but you might still develop yet!!!



Concentrate on other features that you like about yourself, and if it makes you feel better, invest in a good bra!! This can work wonders - BHS have a fabulous padded push bra, that can make you look quite curvy even if you have little up front.



Build up your confidence in other areas, and you can make yourself feel fabulous!!! Believe me - coming from someone who has more mood swings and body issues that hot dinners, but when I'm up, I feel as though I can take on the world!!

Answer 10

Believe it or not, there are guys who are not that concerned about the size of a woman's chest.



When it comes to boyfriends, try to focus on relationships that are based on friendship rather than physical attraction. When you consider dating someone, you should be concerned about whether you have common interests and enjoy being around the person; not about how they might react to your naked body. If you find a guy who honestly likes you as a person, I assure you he won't care about your bra size when the time comes to be naked together.

Answer 11

Don't worry about it we all grow at different rates mine started growing when I was 10 and by the time I was 13 they were the same size as Pamela Anderson's (36C) and now I'm 22 they are bigger that Jordan's she's a 32F and now I'm a 36G.

Answer 12

i really sympathise with you as i have lived with the same problem and worries for years - but i have to say i have had several relationships and it has never been an issue with any of them (in fact the guys liked it!!) - it is an issue with myself and no-one else. what makes people attractive is not so much what they look like but how they portray themselves - the most attractive people are those in love because they look glowing and happy - be confident about yourself, make the most of what you have and BE HAPPY. x

Answer 13

A man that can not see past your boobs is not worth your effort, we are all beautiful in our own way. Do not change in to what you think people are looking for. You are already what people are looking for.

Answer 14

First off, you weigh too little. Being underweight can be one of your issues.

Two, your breasts dont stop developing until your mid twenties. So relax, you still have a way to go.

Also, there is nothing wrong with A cup breasts. There are big breasted women who would kill to be that size.

You're great just the way you are... remember that.

Answer 15

seriously i had the same as you at your age .. then they appeared from nowhere ... but you dont have to worry, would you prefer a person to like you for your personality or your physical attributes ??



I know which i prefer.... personality every time



Boyfriends arent that important either ... you will know when you find a compatable partner or the love of your life .. you have many years to find yourself & experience the wonders of this world, before you explore relationships ...

Answer 16

They can grow into your 20's so don't worry about it.



There are guys out there who LOVE your size chest.



Those who do not are not worth the effort IMO.

Answer 17

And if you don't think Milla Jovovitch is hot, your crazy. And she is quite flat, but still hot! Breast size is not important.

Answer 18

you need to gain about 12lbs to start...