weird stuff my boyfriend likes. mature answers only please.?

Question

okay. for some reason my boyfriend really wants to lick my bumhole. :/
im sure it would feel nice but isnt that just such a dirty and un-hygenic thing for him to do? is it weird? but do you think if i let him do that, he'd let me do stuff to him that i've always wanted to do? (not weird stuff like licking his bum lol, im not into that at all, like my own fantasies, e.g. roleplay and stuff) should i let him do it one time so i can then do stuff i want to to him? one time when he was giving me oral sex he went to lick my bum-hole, but i pulled away cos i wasnt expecting it and wouldnt have properly cleaned for him.

btw im not a troll. im not taking the piss. i am being serious. please dont report me i did give a warning in the title

Answer 1

If it is what you are comfortable with, go for it. But make sure you're both clean, I think you can buy stuff that helps you clean out that area better. Just make sure that he doesn't lick your vaginal area after licking the bum hole or you could end up with an infection. Also, as far as you doing what you want to him, like roleplay etc, in relationships it's not really an eye for an eye, you do this to me, I'll do that to you sort of thing. I think you should both sit down together and have a discussion about your sexual fantasies.

Answer 2

OMG! NO!!!! If you're uncomfortable, the DON'T DO IT! If you wouldn't mind giving it a try, then tell him you'll try it, but if you don't like it, then he won't be doing it anymore. Also, if there's things you want to do, it shouldn't have to be: I'll let you do this one thing I'm not comfortable with if you agree to do this. Both people should be comfortable. But as far as fantasies, present the idea to him, he might like it and you might get him to do it without having to sacrifice your anus. BTW, having your guy lick your bumhole is quite a turn on, in my opinion, but ALWAYS make sure you're clean. Same goes for anal sex, you want to be clean.

Answer 3

This is not weird at all, but as everyone else has said, make sure you're comfortable with it. You're allowed to let him try it once and if you don't like it, then be sure to tell him and tell him why so he understands. Anything sexual that is done anal you do need to be careful. Proper Hygiene is a must, and being responsible is needed as well. In regards to you wanting to do stuff to him, just go for it. I guarantee you that he'll be turned on by you taking the initiative to dress up and want to do something sexual and seductive to him. Good luck!

Answer 4

It's not as weird as you think. There are many guys that like to do that and girls who enjoy it..with you being the receiver I would let him...just shower before sex,,,if after he starts you don't like it tell him to stop..(bet you won't tell him to stop..LOL) also have you asked him to do the things that you want to do??? but doing what he wants to do you might get you want you want...just have him wash mouth and brush teeth after!!!

Answer 5

nah, that's not really weird. almost all of my boyfriends have done that to me, and i've actually done that to a few guys! as long as the area is clean, there is really nothing wrong with it. you'll probably enjoy it!

Answer 6

You and he are both fine as long as you're clean. However, if you're uncomfortable, then end of story. Your comfort is important.

Answer 7

I'm with you girl I would tell him that it not a good place to lick it is very drity he could get very sick hope this helps

Answer 8

Let him do it in the shower after you wash each other.

Answer 9

yeah dats very disturbing & crazy but if you wanna do stuff to him den let him do it to u too...fair is fair...oh & u'll get use to it

Answer 10

guys really like butts idk why. If you don't like it, don't let him do it. but he will keep trying im sure so if he cant live without it you should probly break up.