how can i get people to stop being nasty about my body?

Question

i asked this question b4 but was deleted and i dont know why. anyway i have a large chest 34GG and i cant afford to get them made smaller and i didnt choose to have them this big but people always make snidey comments that really upset me. men assume im easy even though i dont act in anyway to make them think that and they all laugh at the size of them but i can handle that its women who say im attention seeking and show them off but i dont dress tarty- even if i wore a tgent they would still show. i wearloose tops. i stopped going to the gym cos people were laughing at me. its really knocked my confidence. I HOPE QUESTION DOESNT GET DELETED! i dont understand why it did surely its not offensive?? please help-

Answer 1

2 things: any back issues....talk to your doctor because there's a medical reason for a reduction.



Second thing: honey there is no need to let this kncok your confidence and anything, let it boost it. I always joke that people pay for these things and when people make snidey remarks tell yourself that someone they know has probably paid almost $20k for what is yours naturally. You were blessed with them and as long as you feel you're being respectful: forget people! The average woman is jealous because a mans eyes are gonna go right to your boobs instead of theirs. Woman are intimidated by you and take that as a compliment.



If you really do wanna hide them, put on a really supportive/minimizing bra (to keep them from hanging down) and then put on a couple sports bras as small as you can comfortably wear them.



Do me a favor, google (images) big boobs...look how confident those women are. Then google popularity of breast implants...do some research to show yourself that your body is YOURS and it's great and screw other people!

Answer 2

Accept the comments from the men proudly. Guys make sexual comments but it is there way of complementing something they really like. The girls are just jealous, and are self concious of there own bodies. You can never get people to stop being rude, because thats just how the world is. You need to just ignore them, move on, and live your life.



God Bless

Answer 3

you are truly endowed. People will grow up. Don't think about it.

Adriana is right, the bigger the better. Guys tell me that all the time.

Lala too got it right. Once you grow up you;ll thank mother nature that you have so much femininity on you. Remember a surgery is a surgery and unnecessary.

Women are just jealous, understandably.

Answer 4

if it is causing you problems such as a bad back you can have a reduction done on the nhs, speak to your doctor. i know someone who had it done.

Answer 5

honestly? people are just jealous. I'd KILL.. well not actually kill.. to have boobs that big.. mine are rediculously small.. if anyone is saying anything, they're just jealous and want your chest.. wear 'em proud hunny! :D

Answer 6

You are truly gifted, but if you must hide it sweatshirts help.