Why are the men in America so hateful towards big girls?

Question

I am from Egypt. Although its a North African country, we carry a lot of Roman behaviours. The men there are tall, dark and handsome and are the best lovers in the world and treat their women wonderfully. (Despite what the American stereotypes of us are)...over there, chubby women are adored. Of course the think girls get men, but the bigger ons are preferred. They are considered more happy, warm hearted and sexy. Yes and they love butt and boobs lol...so anyway I notice in America, men sneer and snicker at heavy women, almost totally forgetting the fact that they have feelings too, and opt out for the skinny snobby girls instead. Why is this? What is this countries obsession with meatless women?

In Egypt the men say, 'Meat is for the man, bones are for the dog"
But then again I see a lot of prejudice here...against fat peope, other religions, other races...its horrible.

Here is a video of what the men think of as sexy in Egypt.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HWvfn7ogA...

Answer 1

I think this is pretty sexy

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KVuIBpJ6B4E

Answer 2

Dear Habibi, I know what you say is true. Even thought I thought I would never grow into my age. I seen where, While growing up, that the boys love to fight and cause trouble. Let me give you a glimpse of my hometown. The predgudice was so yhick you could cut it with a knife. The streets had signs that if you were not white you were not allowed on the street after dark. It didn't matter if you were girl or boy, man or woman, that seemed to give everyone that was white a licence to harrass and hurt. I and many other people were treated very badly, but when you were fat they tease you a lot and never seemed to let up. When you were like me a native of the southwest and like the blacks that moved to town for there jobs. It was very demeaning to all of us. Iwas also the smallest child in school, even when I graduated high school I was still small for my age and all those years I knew what the inside of a trash can at school looked like and didn't matter that I was a girl they just knew they could do it and get away with it. My Stepdad was very predgudiced himself and I learned a lot of words from him when I wasn't suppose to be listening.

As an adult now I see a lot of men doing the same thing toward women and they just don't seem to care if someone sees them do it.

So don't think that people have just turned out that way all of a sudden.

If while you are here go to the library and check out some American history on slavery as well as how women have been treat over the years. I know America wasn't the only country to have slavery or that their women were treated any differently. Like the old commercial on TV says" You've come a long way, Baby". Besides Mom always told me,"Don't judge a book by it's cover", and "It's what's inside that counts". So don't give up on your dreams, there's someone out there for you. Have a great day and enjoy what the Great Spirit or God or what people want to call him, the beauty of all that is around us.

Your Friend, Julie

Answer 3

Obviously, the culture in America is very different from the culture in Egypt. But studies have shown that men actually don't prefer the twiggy, "meatless" girls. Although if you were to look at the super models in the magazines, you wouldn't think so, they're all incredibly thin, very tall and lanky. But anyway, the sociological study I mentioned showed men a picture of four female silhouettes. The first was very skinny, the second more average, the third a little chubby but not extremely so, and the fourth was bigger. When asked which silhouettes they found more attractive, most men chose the middle two. And this was a study done in America. The media portrays men and chauvinistic pigs, who only seek after the super model types, but in reality, men are attracted to women who are confident in themselves and happy with who they are.

I hope this helped you feel a little more understanding towards American men.

Answer 4

The USs' history of racism has led the idea of purity to unseen levels. Before I go deeper I will explore the word "pure". Pure=without impurities, just the facts, elements not molecules. Just like gold and aspirations for racial purity, sexuality and beauty in the US incorporates this idea of purity, which I'm sure is rooted in racism and bigotry. When I meditate on what you say I see American men trying to get the most pure female possible, no matter what the background is. Pure from excess eating and all the things that come with it, poop. A heavy set women in America is viewed as wasteful, not necessary (since we have all the food we need or could want), and I believe this is rooted in ideas of racial purity. I may be wrong but the USs' history of bigotry and racism has to be transformed into something else. That is how ideas work. Same concept new category. This very true of men with chest and back hair. It used to be that no one cared but now men of this hairy nature are viewed as racially impure, somewhere down the ladder of evolution. An educated person knows this is not true but, children in the US are raised to believe that all forms of body hair, besides the kind that is unseen, is wrong and rooted in something evil and impure (Notice how Jesus' beard is kept so short, clean, and well kept).

Answer 5

Because American men like plastic enhanced skeletons instead of a real human.



Plastics parts don't sag when old. They stay in place while everything else falls with gravity. Those broads look disgusting by the time they hit 60.

Answer 6

"Why are the men in America"



Well since we're generalizing why are the women in America so biased and bigoted towards men in general? Oh right, they're not, you're just generalizing.



I don't have any problem with 'big girls', beauty is more about self confidence than it is physical attributes.

Answer 7

Hmm.



But America still has a hope about it. In my country, Japan, especially among young chicks, female overweights are treated as non human beings. While most of us guys consider those underweighted freaks as charmless skeletons.



Besides, it's required measure is dumb strict. If Miley Cyrus has been in my country, she will be considered a fat bastard.

Answer 8

There are cultural differences toward how women are viewed and treated in the Eastern and Western worlds.

Answer 9

i do no longer comprehend because of the fact anybody isn't that mean to black adult adult males yet black women are taken care of badly. The media is in many situations accountable. displaying black adult adult males with each race and black women single. Black people are confusing to me, Kanye like Kim yet Ciara is lots extra appealing, gifted and not in any respect has boyfriend.i'm no longer black no longer white and don't comprehend.

Answer 10

I've never understood it either. I personally find large women sexy.

Answer 11

im moving to egypt!!!!!!! that rocks. i would go back there if i were you. it sounds cool.

Answer 12

I think you are wrong in your assumption.

Answer 13

WHY ARE EGYPTIANS SO HATEFULL TOWARDS JEWS? ONLY GOD KNOWS