Which is the best form of Birth Control?

Question

Hello, I am recently sexually active with my boyfriend and am looking for a form of birth control. I am currently on the birth control pill, Yasmin. I have found that I have had major depression as a side effect to Yasmin as well as weight gain. A year ago, when I was with someone else, I had tried the Ortho-tri-cyclen Lo pill which had similar side effects. I am looking for another form of birth control (or another brand of birth control pill) that concentrates in NOT having the following side effects: Depression, acne (I'm prone to break outs) and weight gain. No, I'm not looking for birth control "magic" - an inherent answer and any kind suggestions or best solutions would be helpful. Also, I want to mention I'm not really comfortable with IUDs. I'm 22 - if that helps.

Answer 1

abstinence is the best form of BC



aside from that there's condoms



then "pill"

Answer 2

On a "light note", keep your legs crossed! "No you're not"; "Not b....y likely" or words to that effect usually have the desired effect! A slap in the b......s also cools the ardour! (Sorry, that was rather "tongue in cheek", but amusing, nonetheless).



On a serious note, like yourself, I have never fancied IUD's - a couple of friends got nasty infections/side effects with them. There are so many birth control pills on the market that it is difficult to know where to start. Have you got any close female family members or friends that you can ask what pill they have taken or taking, and, what, if any, side effects they have had or are experiencing?



Where do you get your pill from; Family Planning Clinic, doctor? Make an appointment to discuss your problems; concerns etc. They should be able to suggest alternatives that may suit you better. I've never had it, but what about the contraceptive injection - my best friends' daughter has it, and swears it's the best form of contraception she's ever had. She's a similar age to you and has been having the injection for 2 - 3 years now. At an age where weight gain and spots/acne breakout would be most expected, i.e. teenage years, she didn't suffer any more than usual - the usual "spots" that appear on the morning before a big date! The "why do I look fat in this", and "I hate everybody" moods



How does your boyfriend feel about him taking the responsibility for birth control - and I don't mean the "withdrawal method" - not a good idea - I mean "Durex" or whatever brand? Personally, I don't like those either, it's like going to bed with your socks on! Bit of a passion-killer also, I think! But, it is a suggestion worth considering whilst you are trying to find a pill that suits you - you evidently don't want to hear the "patter of tiny feet" at the present time - good for you! Talk things over with your doctor/family etc., and I hope you do find one that suits you soon. Good luck.

Answer 3

What's with the abstinence crowd?



I suggest you see your doctor and explain your problems. It can take a while to find the right birth control pill, they say, and you have only tried two. I think they come even lower-dose than the ones you've tried so you could try another type. It depends on the individual so I can't suggest a brand I'm sorry. I have heard some people like Yaz better than Yasmin, and also you could try the mini-pill (progesterone only) if the oestrogen is what is causing your side effects.



The thing is, the birth control you are after unless you're into condoms/diaphragms (which should be used with back-up anyway) is hormonal, and anything hormonal runs the risk of those side effects. From what I've heard the contraceptive injection is worse in terms of these effects, but you could try it. There's also the NuvaRing which I think is lower hormone than the pill as well. I suggest you talk it over with your doctor. Good luck.

Answer 4

Abstinence is 100% birth control. Of course, you know that, but someone else reading this might not.



Try keeping a journal of your weight, mood and sleep patterns, foods, drinks and how much and how often etc. Keep this journal for a couple months so you can see if there's a pattern in any of those things you're tracking. You might see a pattern in types foods you eat and how you feel afterward, or you might find that after you have caffeine or sugary drinks that you feel differently. Plus, you might notice changes before, during or after the usual times of your menstrual cycles.



If this journal isn't helpful to you, it may be perfect information for your OB-GYN. Take your journal or notes with you to your gynecologist and allow them to look it over and talk about your symptoms and concerns. Together, you and your doctor can come up with something that is right for you. Be sure your Medical History is current and accurate, also.



Your boyfriend should be taking a part in the birth control process. It's not just your responsibility to ensure you're careful. The 'pill', no matter the brand, has lots of health risks connected to it and you don't have to carry all of the burden of choice.



Make sure you call your doctor and get those side effects checked out. It might be something that's not connected to your birth control choice at all.

Answer 5

Well, I know you've probably already heard this, but the way you worded your question really set you up...: ) Abstinence is the only sure fire way to prevent pregnancy! And I say that with all sincerity....I was on birth control both times I got pregnant! I personally never used spermicide or a sponge but I know people who do and it seems to work for them, although I think it may take some spontaneaty out of things. If you do use these, I'd combine them with a condom to increase your protection.



After my first child, I did have an IUD for 2 years...and when it was time to have it removed I choose the pill....less than a year later I was pregnant again....which turned out fine really, but the IUD seemed to be the only thing that worked for me!



You might try talking to your doctor about the side effects you've been having with your pill and see if there is something else they can suggest...I'd try using the spermacide and/or condoms along with the new pill until you see how it seems to be working for you incase you have to quit taking it.

Answer 6

Birth Control is anything preventing birth. This means before conception and after. "Birth Control" can also mean murder. "It makes me mad how people try to label it black and white" . "Yeah, they say just make it a woman's right" The truth seems to be how far will we let women get. Abortion is not a womans right. You may call it a fetus or whatever. It is a life started. How can we tear a concieved baby out of a womans womb and not call it murder? A woman does not have a right to end a life that has aready started. Rape is not a good reason. The child had nothing to do with this. Why tear the child out? If you want an abortion , give the child up for adoption instead.

Answer 7

Whatever you do, don't go on cilest or microgynon.



started on cilest on Thurs and already feeling the depression and seeing the weight gain.



Mini pills can be just as bad though and can make your cycle very irregular. I was on micronor for 3 months and I had my period every 10 days by the 2nd month.



Cilest does seem good for acne already but that's the only up-side apart from protection, everything else is bad!



I've heard good things about Diane but I haven't tried it so I can't really comment.



Good luck! Takes a while to find a pill that suits you so be patient and give them all a proper go.

Answer 8

I've had similar problems with side effects to the pill. I've tried diaphragms, condoms, spermicide cream and a few different pills.



My doctor gave me a very low dose progestin only pill after I had my second child so it wouldn't affect nursing. It's the only one that has not has any side effects. It's called Camila. I'm not sure if it's brand name or generic. The only problem is that you have to take it within the same hour every day because it's so low dose.



Keep trying different pills, maybe one of them will work for you.

Answer 9

The best form of birth control is abstinence, which means, no sex. Other than that, you should sit down and have a talk with you gyno about this. Explain that you've been feeling depressed on your current pill and want to try some different options. He or she would know more about it and it's good that you have a talk with a trained pro about this kind of thing. If you don't like the pill and want to stop, make sure your bf uses condoms. I prefer trojans because they have spermicidal lubricant as added protection ^.^

Answer 10

Well first no sex is better, but if you are having sex, always use birth control. As for the pill, there are always the patch and the ring. I have used them both and i liked them. But if your worried about weight gain and depression, then maybe you should talk to your doctor they generally know what would be better with your body type. Good luck.

Answer 11

I found the NuvaRing to be the best option for me. Because the hormone level is so low, it has less side effects and is just as effective as the pills, you just have to be comfortable with inserting and removing it.





If you don't have great Rx coverage, it is kind of expensive, but it was the best choice for me.

Answer 12

ok well i have been on the depo prvera shot for 2 years and a lot of people say alot of bad things about it but its not all true i like it it works well for me and i dont have to remember to take a pill it does have some side affects but it doesnt affcet everyone i was 130 llbs when i started the shot and now 2 years later im 95llbs. i lost weight a lot of wieght i even got down to 75 llbs and i wasnt dieting or doing anything diff. but its different for others but as long as u take multi vitamin and eat right u should be fine heck i dont eat right i eat alll the time and im still little

Answer 13

I think IUD's are the best.



and the people who are saying abstinence have obviously never had sex before, to know how great it is, and for a guy, filling a girl up with your own brand of baby batter and watching it ooze back out is the greatest sight in the world next to seeing your children born.

Answer 14

The depo pervera shot,they give it to you every 3 months,it does cause you to gain weight but thats after 2 years

Answer 15

Abstinence is the only 100% effective method of birth control.

Answer 16

tell your doctor, they will have a list of things with different side effects, and some of them should tailor to you perfectly! try a generic. i really dont know any in specific, but i told my doctor my concerns and he was able to come up with a list that tailored to my needs perfectly. :] good luck.

Answer 17

ortho low is the best for that.. seems like u are extremely sensitive to the side effect.. condoms.. or depo vera shot... i hated it tho.

Answer 18

honey talk to your doctor



my best forms of bith control are abstinance and masturbation, followed by pill and condom used together

Answer 19

There is no brith control that is 100%. I got pregnant after using condoms and a morning after pill.

Answer 20

I would say a full hysterectomy will do the trick!!!

Answer 21

abstinence lol

Answer 22

Not spreading eagle and keeping your legs closed.



Or....

just having oral sex.

Answer 23

the word no.

Answer 24

Say no.

Answer 25

abstains.