Your ejaculate shouldn't look like a males.
Are you sure you mean your ejaculate and not your discharge/lubrication?
Discharge comes from your vagina, it's how your vagina keeps itself clean by flushing out dead cells and bacteria, it also protects vaginal walls and keeps a healthy pH to kill off anything harmful - this changes throughout your cycles. Discharge can be white, clear, or off-white, it can range from being like lotion through to being stretchy and slimy like egg whites. It shouldn't have clumps in it, that might suggest an infection like thrush - have you been tested for infections?
Lubrication comes from your vagina, this is produced when you are aroused and there is more when you climax, it's produced to help protect the vaginal walls from damage during sex and make it easier for the penis to go inside your vagina, it also effects pH to make it a bit friendlier for sperm. It's the same sort of colour as your discharge but tends to be more slimy.
Ejaculation comes from your urethra, it's created by the paraurethral glands in the sponge that surrounds your urethra - this sponge is part of your erection and works to cut-off the bladder from your urethra to prevent you peeing during sex - no one knows why women produce ejaculate. Ejaculate is more fluid, a little like saline fluid as it's watery but with a bit of an oily feel, it's normally clear, with no smell or a slight musky smell, and a salty taste. This can be just a few trickles of fluid when you climax, or a squirt of fluid as you climax.
Honorably Discharged: A Guide to Vaginal Secretions
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/body/honorably_discharged_a_guide_to_vaginal_secretions
Female Ejaculation, the G-Spot, and the Female Prostate Gland - http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/ejacula.htm