asking girls about erection?

Question

I met a girl and we dated for a month and one day went to her cottage outside the town had some alcohol and were about to have sex, i put a condom and my erection got weaker,I entered her few times, but then it came out from her itself few times, probably because was not erect enough, she took the condom off and did oral and i came. I was ashamed, second time same thing happened it was in few days. i came just right before i entered her. Do you think its a disease? at home i can maintain erection for as long as i want . Especially when excited. Sometimes it can be weaker if excitement disappears, but if concentrate it comes back to strong erection. Maybe it some kind of vessel disease? My girlfriend looked disappointed and didn't say anything, i felt even worse after this.

Answer 1

no, it is not a disease silly.



Premature ejaculation (PE), also known as, rapid ejaculation, rapid climax, premature climax or early ejaculation, is the most common sexual problem in men, affecting 25%-40% of men. It is characterized by a lack of voluntary control over ejaculation.

Answer 2

It's not a disease. The alcohol could have caused your inability to maintain an erection. Just keep trying, apologize to your lady and get lots of practice. Why didn't you have her stop while she was giving you oral right before you came so you could gather yourself and continue having sex? It sounds like you don't have much stamina so you should increase the amount you masturbate.

Answer 3

It's not a disease. you may ejaculate quickly because this girl really arouses you. Try lots of foreplay to take care of her needs and she will be happy. Also, alcohol can make it hard to maintain your erection, keep this in mind when you are going to be with her.